A specialty area of my practice

Body image and body dysmorphic disorder

Body dysmorphic disorder can consume hours of a person’s day and affect work, relationships, social life, and the ability to be present.

The concern may be difficult for other people to understand, but the distress is real. Effective treatment is available.

How BDD can show up

BDD involves a persistent preoccupation with one or more perceived flaws in appearance.

Repeated mirror checking, or mirror avoidance

Repeated mirror checking, or mirror avoidance

Comparing yourself with other people

Comparing yourself with other people

Camouflaging and grooming

Camouflaging and grooming

Seeking reassurance

Seeking reassurance

Researching ways to change your appearance

Researching ways to change your appearance

Avoiding photographs and social situations

Avoiding photographs and social situations

What they share

The specific concern varies. What these experiences have in common is the amount of time, distress, and restriction they create.

A common misunderstanding

This is not vanity

BDD is sometimes mistaken for vanity or a desire for compliments. It is neither. Many people with BDD feel ashamed of the concern itself and go to great lengths to hide how much they are suffering.

You will not need to persuade me that the problem is serious.

Treating the symptoms and understanding the person

Cognitive behavioral therapy adapted for BDD, including exposure and response prevention, is an established treatment. These methods can help reduce rituals, avoidance, and distress, and I use them when appropriate.

Cognitive behavioral therapy adapted for BDD, including exposure and response prevention, is an established treatment. These methods can help reduce rituals, avoidance, and distress, and I use them when appropriate.

Cognitive behavioral therapy adapted for BDD, including exposure and response prevention, is an established treatment. These methods can help reduce rituals, avoidance, and distress, and I use them when appropriate.

I also pay attention to the broader context in which the symptoms developed. That may include experiences of shame, criticism, bullying, trauma, attachment, identity, or self-worth. The goal is not to force every person into the same explanation. It is to understand what is maintaining the symptoms for you and to build a treatment around that understanding.

Etching of a woman at a sewing machine in a dim apartment, turning to look toward a bright window

EDWARD HOPPER, EAST SIDE INTERIOR, 1922

What working together can involve

Early work

Reducing rituals and reclaiming daily life

Early work may focus on understanding the pattern, reducing rituals, and helping you regain parts of daily life that BDD has restricted. We proceed collaboratively and at a pace that takes the severity of the symptoms seriously.

As symptoms ease

Exploring what shaped how you see yourself

As the symptoms become more manageable, there may be more room to explore the experiences and relationships connected to how you see yourself. Symptom relief and deeper understanding can be part of the same treatment.

My focus on BDD

BDD and body image are specialty areas in my practice. My approach is informed by relational and psychodynamic training, along with CBT and ERP methods used in BDD treatment. This allows us to address the symptoms directly without losing sight of the person experiencing them.

Also relevant

Body image concerns often sit alongside anxiety, self-criticism, and relational patterns that are worth understanding together.

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Get in touch

You do not need a formal diagnosis to contact me. If appearance concerns, checking, comparison, or avoidance are taking up a significant part of your life, we can begin with a free 15-minute phone consultation.

Watercolor of the East River at sunrise, with small boats on pale water and the city low and hazy on the far shore

Charles de Wolf Brownell, East River, Sunrise, 1862

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Get in touch

You do not need a formal diagnosis to contact me. If appearance concerns, checking, comparison, or avoidance are taking up a significant part of your life, we can begin with a free 15-minute phone consultation.

Watercolor of the East River at sunrise, with small boats on pale water and the city low and hazy on the far shore

Charles de Wolf Brownell, East River, Sunrise, 1862

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Get in touch

You do not need a formal diagnosis to contact me. If appearance concerns, checking, comparison, or avoidance are taking up a significant part of your life, we can begin with a free 15-minute phone consultation.

Watercolor of the East River at sunrise, with small boats on pale water and the city low and hazy on the far shore

Charles de Wolf Brownell, East River, Sunrise, 1862

Artwork

Edward Hopper, East Side Interior, 1922, National Gallery of Art (1949.5.71). Charles de Wolf Brownell, East River, Sunrise, 1862, National Gallery of Art (2005.146.1). All works are in the public domain and were obtained from the holding museum’s open access collection.